🕯️🫖 Softening into the Winter Solstice

The longest night and our deepest exhale — the Winter Solstice is a time for surrendering, returning to our quiet truths, and tending to what can’t be rushed.
As ever, it arrives with the Sun moving into Cancer; but this year with Jupiter also freshly dancing through the first water sign, the message is crystal clear: slow down, and let your inner world take the lead.
Cancer is ruled by the Moon and reflects themes like safe space and our emotional needs. It governs the unseen tides of feeling, memory, and ancestral (our maternal bloodlines) wisdom. When the Sun enters Cancer, it’s important to flow; to value nourishment over productivity, and feeling over force. Jupiter expands everything it touches, so the imperative towards rest is magnified this year. Consider this your cosmic permission slip to embrace JOMO (the joy of missing out), to honour your sensitivity, and your right to retreat.
The next four weeks offer a time to gather what’s been scattered, to grieve, to remember, and (importantly) to give yourself permission to do absolutely nothing but just be.
There’s wisdom in a pause, beauty in the dark, and power in resting deeply, and deliberately; honouring nature’s cycles, before the action does turn back up. This magical portal invites us to turn down that urge to push forward, produce, figure it all out — asking us to instead slow down, listen, and to remember what we already know…
Read on for your sign’s solstice suggestions. We recommend reading your Sun, Moon, and Rising signs!
You don’t have to do it all alone. Let this Solstice soften your edges and guide you towards the sources of support and emotional safety you deserve. Reminder: rest is not weakness — it’s fuel for the fire to come.
You get to choose the belief systems which work best for you. If believing you’re lucky helps you go about your day with a sense of ease and confidence, why not permanently adopt that? This Solstice invites you to return to what soothes your spirit.
You don’t have to be understood by everyone. This Solstice reminds you that your value isn’t in the reception you receive. Focus on how deeply you know yourself, beautiful quirks and all. Rest your voice and listen inwardly.
The Solstice is especially potent for you. Let it be a return to self, and a reconnection to your heart. What haven’t you been allowing yourself to feel fully?
Let your heart lead, not ideas around how you want to be perceived. Your spotlight will come (or return) in time — but right now, you’re being asked to rest behind the curtain. It’s time to fill your own cup, for you.
You’ve done enough. The Winter Solstice whispers what your nervous system already knows: you’re safe to pause. Let the worth of your days be measured not in service or productivity, but in presence.
Harmony begins within. This Solstice invites you to recalibrate your own inner balance before tending to anyone else’s needs. Quieten down the external noise, until your inner voice feels loud and clear. Where are you being guided to go?
Your intuitive gifts are sacred, and they don’t have to feel heavy. Let this Solstice dissolve old grief and invite lightness and play back into your emotional landscape. Even transformation needs rest.
Don’t worry if you’re not right at a new horizon. This Solstice reminds you that the fire within can glow quietly and constantly. Insight also comes from stillness.
Release the pressure to carry it all. Let this Solstice strip away outdated expectations and offer space for you to simply be. Rest is productive when it returns you to your true self.
You don’t have to hold it all together for anyone else. This Solstice reminds you that connection begins inside. Tend to the parts of you that long to be truly seen and felt.
Your creativity is a gift meant to be shared — and this will happen on its own. This Solstice invites you to reconnect with your imagination in peaceful, nourishing ways. Let your inner world get louder, and you’ll effortlessly create from your own truth.